♡ BOUNDARIES / CONSENT QUESTIONNAIRE ♡

i realized this later in my SW career / personal life  - the fact that people ( including ourselves ) don’t fully establish proper boundaries other than the basics whether it be work as well as our personal lives. Same thing with consent, ( I always only speak for myself in my blogs ) but I have 10000% done things that I wasn’t 100% okay with or was just “eh” about because it: made my job easier / quicker, didn’t really care, or just didn’t talk about it when in retrospect I wish I *did* have that open conversation. I recommend writing your answers down to these on a phone note or piece of paper so you always have yours & you can update it as often as you’d like! 

I made this questionnaire for you, your partner, work, etc - so please take & use what you like ♡

                       ♡ THE BOUNDARIES & CONSENT QUESTIONNAIRE ♡

                 ( tbh I highly recommend just copy & pasting this to anyone this would apply with )

1. When were you last tested & what were you tested for? Here are my results, can I please see yours as well?

2. What do you like sexually?

3. What are your hard limits?

4. What are you willing / open to trying?

5. What are your sexual fantasies? ( if any! )

6. Do you like toys? If so, what toys do you like?

7. ( assuming everyone is tested & on the same page child wise or on birth control, plan b, etc ) Condoms or no condoms? If yes to condoms, is there a specific type you prefer if you are allergic to latex or need a certain size?

8. Money wise - what are you okay walking away from to preserve your mental health?

9. What are your kinks / fetishes ( if any! ) ?

10. What is your safe word? One for “getting a little out of my comfort zone” and one for “STOP”

11. What are you looking for out of this? ( A business collab, friends with benefits, something casual, relationship, one night stand? ) & ___ is what I am currently looking for & ( if applicable ) open to more! 

12. Are you sleeping with anyone else? ( No, you don’t need to know the peoples names unless it is important to you - but this is mainly so you can keep your safety as well as others in check & know what you are getting into / if you are okay sleeping with someone who is with multiple people & if you are as well! ) & follow up with if you are or are not! 

We neeeeeed proper consent and boundaries because it can be genuinely traumatizing and at the very least just not a good experience otherwise. By setting boundaries as well as realizing your own, you are getting to know yourself / your body better, being respectful to others by asking them and being open with your answers, and making the conversations of: sex, kink, STD/STI, open / monogamous relationships, etc SO much easier to have ♡

love,

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