♡ CONFIDENCE IN THE CLUB 101 ♡

Hi loves! I know I already made a post on my Instagram about this but wanted to add more detail & fine tune it! 

Confidence at the club is one of the top three things in my opinion to making good $, overall better self image / mental health, and having your customers love you 💗

✨ LIPGLOSSSSSSS (idk what it is but something about a good sparkly pink / clear / nude gloss just always screamed "MONEY" to me and made me feel amazing - highly recommend fenty gloss bomb, juicy tubes, & dior) 

💧OUTFITS ON POINT bc duh!!! if u look hot then others will SEE that confidence, they'll see your style & everyone glows differently when they know they look amazinggggg 😛 ( accessories count in this too!! ) always recommend Angel Candy Shop ,Ultra Vixen , Rave & Dancewear & a million others! Go to accessories for me are always: choker / necklace, cute on the floor $$ bag, a leg garter & sometimes a sparkly anklet. I love those giant sparkly hoops though and I'm allllll about anything that sparkles. 

✨ STRIPPER WITCH & GOOD PERFUME. I swear I'm in a stripper cult but I'm 1000000% happy about it and it works everytime??? 💰 I swear by Stripper Witch $$ oils/sprays + wealthy men ones! Good perfume is always nice too (esp behind the ear) bc men love that shit ( I use Dior's Absolutely Blooming for a more uplifting, sexy scent & YSL's Black Opium for a spicy, sexy scent --> otherwise I fucking love the OG Victoria's Secret bombshell spray )

💧 SHOWER ROUTINE - get some good scrubs & shaving cream ( treehut & coochie ) & use a good bodywash to exfoliate, shave, & lather up! NO LOTION. I personally only use shower gels from LUSH because that was one of my first vanilla jobs + everything there smells amazinggggggg. 

✨ BADDIE PLAYLIST + AFFIRMATIONS - play the songs that would get u to look in the mirror and be like "DAMN I'D DO ME" bc !!!! yes we want confidence & self love & bad bitch vibes. Affirmations for: 💰, self / club in general so you can keep a positive mindset & stay on your game.

💧 MAKEUP & HOW YOU PRESENT YOURSELF - I change up "girl next door" to "fantasy" every other day pretty much. My makeup will match my outfit, I loooooove sparkles & a gray smoky eye w winged liner & that's my "fantasy" persona. Otherwise, natural makeup, pink lip, lighter sparkles, etc. Sometimes I'll be talking to everyone and super flirty or I'll be more your "friend" and be more about convo. Below is a few of my staples. All depends on the vibe 🪄 

♡ SAGE'S MAKEUP MUST HAVES ♡

-medium/full coverage foundation + concealer

-pressed powder ( not translucent powder but like the one that's your skin tone bc i do not know how to "bake" my face and contour lol )

-dark brown or black pencil liner 

-huuuge eyeshadow palette with a lot of gray, purple, & pink varieties + fun colors / glitter

-pink blush

-golden highlight

-nude, light / baby pink non matte lipsticks & lipgloss

-urban decay glitter liner

✨ KNOWING YOUR WORTH & NOT SETTLING. You worked to hard to lower your prices for someone who could happily afford to pay your rates if not more 💅🏻 ( Have that attitude without coming off like you have an attitude if that makes sense ) YOU ARE HIGH CLASS BABY 💸

💧 TALK 2 EVERYONE - even if there's 4 people. It'll help you get used to talking to people for the shift, get comfortable, & besides, only takes 1 person to say yes & 1 person to make your night 🤑 Even if everyone says no, don't let that discourage you - let it motivate you because your 1 is there waiting for you! 

✨ ENERGY: literally. If you look exhausted / like you don't want to be there, everyone can tell & it's not a good look. Fake it till you make it or come back when you're awake ( or chug 5 Redbulls ) but seriously though - energy is fucking key. If you are positive, having fun ( even on a slow, shitty night ) & at least LOOKING like you can be fun/uplifting - people will come to you because humans are drawn to that. Plus it definitely starts a placebo affect that you're in a great mood even if you aren't if you just keep being positive & friendly + it makes work way more fun! If you need to wake the fuck up: Yerbamate/Redbull/any energy drink, coffee, ice water, take a quick break & blast loud music in your car if you can, slap yourself around a little! ( I wish I could say this wasn't a method I used all the time as a baby stripper but for me it worked 😂 ), peppermint essential oil near your hairline & back of neck, etc! 

💧 DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO OTHER GIRLS $$ ( in a "how the fuck is she making $ and i'm not" way ): Looking at girls making money is awesome & I'll always cheer on my friends, new girls, whatever. If some girl took a guy from a group to a VIP or a private room, try going to the other guys in that group & work your magic. Do NOT steal someones customer though ( unless it's literally an accident & you didn't have bad intentions ) because depending on the person / club, you'll probably get a reality check because that shit's not cool. Jealousy is also not cute and customers can sense that. Point being, even if every girl was making a rack & for whatever reason you are the one person who didn't - YES the feeling sucks and you definitely wonder what the fuck you did wrong / could have done differently but you can change that mindset to be *positive* and say to yourself: "What can I learn from tonight?", "What approaches / convo could I have done better so I can improve?", learn from the top earners at your club - don't make them your enemy & vice versa, & "I'll have a better time next time I work, I'm happy there was money in the club because there always will be, I just need to do some improvements, add new things, or just find the right person!"

✨ ENGAGE: stage & dances especially! Bite your lip, make eye contact, lip sync the lyrics to your stage song if you know them & it's fun or sensual, don't be afraid to say hi - worse case they just don't spend $ or make a dumb comment, etc. When you show yourself / customers that you are confident, you're showing you know your self worth, that you aren't insecure ( even if u are, fake it & no one will ever know ), that you aren't "ashamed" to be a stripper ( i have so many guys try & do the stereotype on me of "ohhhh you must be doing this bc you were a run away / dropped out of college / supporting a family on your own / funding legal fees / whatever the fuck - & hey, if any of those are your reasons, power to you because a lot of that is heavy + hard shit to deal with so fucking applaud yourself for me please ) & all that! For example, I'm way more likely to buy a car from someone who seems to know what they're talking about, friendly, not super aggressive, & doesn't throw a fit if I walk away because they know they can get other sales vs. the salesman that is nervous, has to keep double checking prices, aggressive sales wise, & trying to keep haggling with me. 

love,

emotional stripper ♡

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