♡ MESSAGE 2 OUR CUSTOMERS ♡

 hi! usually i make these blogs for people IN the industry or for people trying to understand it more - but you, our customers / consumers / clientele, whatever, are equally important because you are the ones paying us. & with that — here is some food for thought if you will for when you are: 

- at the club alone or with people

- watching someones OnlyFans or porn clips

- messaging their specific work Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, phone, etc

- hiring someone for their services

YES, these are allllllll sexual in nature, but they are still jobs as real as anyone elses & things we ( as the supply ) should not have to deal with are:  

- not getting paid for our time ( yes, the millions of unanswered DMs are unanswered for a reason…..send whoever a tip or a gift & you’ll most likely get a response 🥰 )

- NEGOTIATE OUR PRICES. that’s just embarrassing for you, rude, & weird. like HI if someones OnlyFans was $5 but your morning coffee is the same price….why aren’t you haggling with your Starbucks barista over something that will last you a morning vs a month? We set our prices for a reason, respect them or don’t bother indulging. Do not try and negotiate just because *of* our job, again, it is frustrating & demeaning. If you’re at a strip club with a set price that the CLUB sets, do not even try to waste your time negotiating because as a stripper, believe me - if I could raise the price for most people, I would. ( which is why sometimes I absolutely love clubs where you make your own rate but still ) so again, DON’T DO THIS. ♡

- say no to screenings. your life is as important as ours. i don’t give a fuck if you’re a big shot in corporate or not, my life fucking matters & if you are with ANYONE that wants pics of your: ID, name, selfie, proof of negative testing, etc. - you give them that if you want their services. we do this to make sure the person we’re meeting is: who we think they are, clean, not a murderer / stalker / & is SAFE, not a sex offender or have anything with DV or battery charges, etc. so if requested by whoever, do the screening process ( no, we don’t send your info to literally anyone because we stand to gain absolutely nothing from it nor do we care except for the facts that i just listed ) or do not book whoever’s services.

- i’m amazed i even have to write this, but here we are! DO NOT SHORT / UNDERPAY ANYONE. i’ve had times where ( mainly early SW days ) where I definitely got shorted my set rate but i didn’t count the $$$ beforehand & got it after & when i was already in my Uber - but hey, it sucked & it has definitely happened more than once but i’m human & i’ve fucked up on that so now my main tip is: leave the $$ in an envelope on a table & count it first. same with clubs: whether you get your $$ upfront or not, just make sure it’s the full amount. any guy who has ever shorted me purposely is considered on my blacklist amongst others. do not be the shitty people who do this, this is literally our jobs & to be paid either the bare minimum or less than what was charged is beyond infuriating. if anything, overpay by leaving a tip ♡

- stop trying to date your strippers. i’d say this for most industries but for me at least having to see whatever person / regular IN person all the time is harder to avoid than on the internet. yes, a lot of us might actually like you or at the very least like your company -  but trying to keep a dancer in a dance while knowing your intentions of wanting to date / meet outside for a “real date”, etc is anxiety inducing & fucks with our job because 1: if we feel pressured enough to go on a date with you because you won’t spend $$ on the club anymore otherwise is beyond fucked up & 2. you are affecting our energy + mood for the rest of our shift. there are a milllllion other reasons as to why most people will hate that customers try this, but those are my personal main ones & if anyone would like to add to it - please do in the comments!

- this one is simple. RESPECT. BOUNDARIES. AT. ALL. TIMES. ♡

if there’s more my industry people would like to leave in the comments, please do so! 

xo,

emotional stripper ♡